I pretty much agree with everything here -- down to the fact that I also have a trigger which is not related to consent issues or anything. It's listed in my profile so people will hopefully not recc fics to me that include it, because yeah, crying.

My general tactic (not that I write a lot of dub/noncon, I'm actually pretty fluffy) is to include everything that might be a trigger under "rating," so that way if it's pretty much unobjectionable I can just put something like "G, not even swearing" or something like that.

Extra bonus point: I hate when people use warnings as an advertisement. Like, I saw one that said: "warning: shower blowjobs!" As much as I am not one to complain about shower blowjobs, maybe we should put that in the summary and something a little less goofy in the warnings?